God loves marriage. Let’s strengthen marriages together.
Every church longs to see couples flourish. Yet in the midst of busy lives and a culture that often undervalues lifelong commitment, intentional investment in marriage can easily be squeezed out. We believe God designed marriage to thrive as couples invest in one another, one small step at a time.
That’s why we help churches create bite-sized, Christ-centred experiences that fit naturally into busy lives, making it easy for couples to invest in their marriage and grow closer to God.
“I came away encouraged to see a framework that, as a community, we could use to proactively support good marital relationships, rather than simply fire-fight when things go wrong”
– Andy from Edinburgh
Wondering what RelationWise is all about? In this short video we introduce ourselves and share the heart about the ministry.
Who is RelationWise for?
RelationWise partners with both, churches and individual couples.
We are a Church
We want to strengthen marriages in our congregation.
“Bella and Roman are clearly a couple committed to Jesus and to each other. Their insightful approach is relevant for couples but also for other relationships such as parents and children. I would wholeheartedly recommend this talk to any church or group.”
– Ian
What Shapes Our Approach?
God’s Design
Marriage is God’s lifelong covenant between one man and one woman.
Created to reflect Christ’s love for his Church, marriage points beyond itself to God’s glory and our flourishing.
Wisdom & Insight
Biblical wisdom meets relationship science.
Scripture is our foundation. We combine it with evidence-based insights from relationship science and neuroscience to help couples grow wisely.
Intentional Growth
Small practices create lasting change.
Through straightforward tools, simple habits and a strengths-based approach, we equip couples to build marriages that become stronger over time.
“Watching how you two communicate and work as a couple was inspiring.”
– David & Margaret
Our Story
Looking back, we can see that God has been shaping us for this work over many years.
Through eighteen years of marriage, raising a family, serving in church ministry, studying together at Bible college, and the joys and challenges of everyday life, our own marriage has become one of His greatest classrooms.
Like every couple, we’ve experienced seasons of joy, growth, disappointment, forgiveness, and change. Through it all, God has deepened our love for one another and strengthened our conviction that Scripture has profound wisdom for every area of life, including our closest relationships.
As our individual paths developed, and through our work with couples and conversations with pastors and church leaders, one question kept returning:
How can we help couples invest intentionally in their marriage long before they reach a point of crisis?
Working alongside many couples, including many Christians, has reinforced what God first taught us in our own marriage: healthy relationships rarely happen by accident. They are nurtured through small, intentional choices, made faithfully over time.
That’s why we created RelationWise.
Our desire is to come alongside the faithful ministry of local churches by creating relevant, engaging experiences that help couples invest intentionally in their relationship in ways that fit into busy lives.
Our prayer is simple: that more couples would flourish, more churches would be strengthened, and more marriages would reflect the faithful love of Christ.
Partner with Us
Marriage Alive! is a collection of intentional, guided experiences for Christian couples with full lives who want to invest in their marriage. Rooted in Scripture and informed by relationship science, each experience explores one important aspect of a healthy, Christ-centred marriage and can be completed in one month or less.
Start with the area that matters most to you, combine experiences, or return later to strengthen your marriage from a different angle – all designed to help you infuse your marriage with deeper connection, fresh joy and renewed purpose.
CONNECT.
FREE
The 7 Day Experience
One week. One intentional investment. A guided seven-day experience that helps you make your marriage a priority through simple daily moments of connection.
INSPIRE.
The Event
A two-hour Marriage Alive! experience. A refreshing Marriage Alive! experience that brings biblical wisdom, relationship science and practical tools together in a relaxed and engaging way.
GROW.
30 Day Challenge
30 days – Around 10 minutes a day.
A bite-sized journey that helps couples build a daily rhythm of connection through simple, meaningful moments.
BUILD.
30 Day Spark+ Programme
Learn the Skills of Flourishing Christian Marriages.
SPARK+ is a practical 30-day relationship skills programme for Christian married couples. It combines a Christ-centred understanding of marriage with practical relationship science in a compact 10 min per day format.
COMING IN OCTOBER 2026
DISCOVER.
The Bible Study
Four 90-minutes sessions.
A guided journey through Philippians, discovering timeless biblical wisdom for building a joyful, Christ-centred marriage.
TRANSFORM.
Couple Coaching
Personalised coaching.
Personalised coaching that helps couples make meaningful progress through practical, solution-focused conversations tailored to their unique relationship.