Explore Ways as a Couple
Making it simple to invest in your marriage
Make Space for What Matters
A strong relationship is something worth investing in.
With work, family and everything else competing for attention, investing in your relationship can easily end up further down the list. RelationWise gives you simple, Christ-centred ways to make space for each other, enjoy your relationship and keep growing together.
Choose a simple experience to enjoy with your spouse, gather some friends or your house group and invest in your relationships together, or bring us in for live or personalised support.
Where would you like to start?
Something for Your Relationship
Simple, ready-to-use experiences to help you nurture and strengthen your relationship.
- A Week for Us FREE
- A Month for Us
- Spark+ – together or on your own
Share the Journey
Gather a few couples, friends or your house group and invest in your relationships alongside one another.
- A Week for Us – together
- A Month for Us – together
- Spark+ together
Bring Us In
Join us live or invite us to come alongside you with more personalised support.
- Spark+ Live – join an online cohort
- Workshops & Events – private group cohort
- Personalised 2:2 Couple Support
Explore Experiences
Something for You and Your Spouse
Make space for your marriage, in your own time.
Choose a simple, Christ-centred experience you can fit around everyday life. Start with one gentle week, spend a month intentionally nurturing your relationship, or develop practical skills that strengthen the way you relate.
FREE · 1 WEEK · AROUND 10 MINUTES A DAY
A Week for Us
Life gets busy. A Week for Us gives you five simple connection moments to help you pause, talk and enjoy each other, followed by a date idea and a short Bible study for the weekend.
No big commitment. Just one week to make a little more space for your marriage.
Ready-to-use and delivered straight to their inbox – no prep for you.
30 DAYS · AROUND 10 MINUTES A DAY
A Month for Us
Nurture your marriage, one small moment at a time.
Spend a month intentionally investing in your relationship through simple daily experiences designed to help you notice, appreciate, enjoy and connect with each other.
It isn't homework, and you don't need a problem to solve. It's simply a month of giving something valuable a little more attention.
30 DAYS · AROUND 10 MINUTES A DAY
SPARK+
Build relationship skills for everyday life.
Explore four practical skills that can strengthen the way you relate:
- SP – See through positive eyes
- A – Ask great questions
- R – Reach out
- K – Kindle romance and passion
Each day brings together biblical wisdom, relationship research and one small opportunity to put what you're learning into practice.
Take part together or on your own. You can begin strengthening the way you relate even if your partner isn't taking part.
SPARK+ is only for people who feel safe in their relationship, without abuse, coercion or fear.
Explore group experiences
Share the journey with friends
Why not invest in your relationships together? Gather a few couples, a group of friends or your house group and take part at the same time. Each couple's relationship remains completely their own – there is no expectation to discuss private relationship matters with the group. But taking part together can bring encouragement, shared momentum and a little more fun along the way.
7 DAYS · FOR GROUPS OF COUPLES
A Week for Us Together
Gather your group and spend a week intentionally nurturing your relationships side by side.
Each couple receives the A Week for Us experience to do privately in their own time, while everyone begins and finishes the journey together.
You might simply encourage one another along the way, or make more of it by starting or finishing with a meal, social evening or celebration.
30 DAYS · CHRIST-CENTRED · 10 MINUTES A DAY
A Month for Us Together
BUILD A RHYTHM OF MEANINGFUL CONNECTION
Give couples in your friendship group a month to slow down, enjoy each other, and make meaningful connection part of everyday married life. We’ve done the planning, so couples can simply enjoy connecting. Each week brings five 10-minute moments of connection, a practical relationship tool and a date idea, delivered straight to your inbox.
Over four weeks, couples have repeated opportunities to talk about what matters, enjoy being together, and bring faith naturally into everyday life. Couples take part in their own time while others across the church or group are doing the same – helping create a culture of intentionally investing in marriage.
30 DAYS · FOR GROUPS · COUPLES OR INDIVIDUALS
SPARK+ Together
Learn practical relationship skills of happy couples alongside people you already know.
Everyone follows the SPARK+ journey in their own time, exploring See, Ask, Reach Out and Kindle, while knowing that others in the group are learning and practising alongside them.
Come as a couple or take part individually. Personal relationship details stay private.
Explore Working with Us
Work with Us Directly
Want us to come alongside you?
Sometimes it helps to have more than a self-guided experience. Join us live, gather your own group for a private cohort, or work with us personally as a couple.
ONLINE COHORT · COUPLES OR INDIVIDUALS
SPARK+ Live
Learn it. Practise it. Ask questions.
Take the SPARK+ journey alongside other people with live online sessions led by us. We'll help you explore and practise the four SPARK+ skills, answer questions and help you translate what you're learning into everyday relationship life.
You can join as a couple or on your own, and there is no expectation to share private details about your relationship with the group.
PRIVATE ONLINE COHORT
Bring SPARK+ Live to Your Group
Already have a group of friends, couples or a house group who would like to do SPARK+ together?
Work with us directly.
You gather the group and we'll run a private SPARK+ Live cohort for you, combining the 30-day experience with live opportunities to learn, practise and ask questions together.
FOR COUPLES · ONLINE OR IN PERSON
Personalised 2:2 Support
Support that's specific to the two of you.
Sometimes a programme isn't quite enough. Perhaps you've noticed a pattern you'd like to change, want to reconnect more deeply, or simply want some experienced support as you invest in your relationship.
Our distinctive 2:2 approach means both of us work with both of you. We take time to understand your relationship, recognise what is already good and help you find practical ways forward together.
You don't have to be in crisis to benefit from personalised support.
Why Choose RelationWise
Christ-centred
Everything we create is rooted in Scripture and designed to help couples grow in their relationship with each other and with Christ.
Informed by Relationship Research
We draw on established relationship research and translate it into practical skills couples can use in everyday life.
Made for Real Life
Short, practical experiences designed to fit around work, family and busy lives – helping couples invest in their marriage without it feeling like another thing on the to-do list.
Easy to Implement
We do the groundwork. You choose what fits you and your spouse / your friendship group, and we provide the resources and support you need to make it happen.